I just read a great article by Jason Boyett posted on the Relevant Magazine site. Targeted at young adults, the article reminds his readers not to expect marriage to be something that it is not.
For all the married people out there, it can serve as a reminder not to hold your spouse responsible for every single disappointment in marriage. While we should maintain high standards, perhaps many of the frustrations we experience in marriage are the result of expecting our spouse to offer us something that only God can give.
Here's the article: 5 Things Marriage Isn't. Enjoy!