How to Fight Well
Conflict is normal. Even in marriage. But we must make sure we are fighting fair and working through disagreements in a way that moves us toward greater oneness, not greater frustration.
Here's a great article on Relevant's website that gives some clear ground rules for fighting with your spouse. Read it with a microscope on yourself, not on your spouse. Look for the 2X4 in your eye long before you start pointing out the splinter in your spouse's eye.
Be honest with yourself. How many of these rules do you break?
Here's Tor Constantino on How to Fight Well.